Beyond the Bedroom

#57 Better Sex in Three Steps- Start Today!

NEW: Watch on YouTube! You’ve heard it a HUNDRED TIMES- just communicate, go explore! What does that mean? Where do you even start? 
In this episode of Beyond the Bedroom with Birna, I break down how to actually improve your sex life long-term in three solid steps. I guide you through where to begin exploring and how to tell your partner(s) what you really, really want. 
 
This episode will help you get out of that rut and kickstart your journey from good to great in bed (and beyond!). 
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#56 How to Play with Power: Domming with Mistress Lauren

NEW: WATCH ON YOUTUBE @ BEYONDBEDROOMPODCAST! Did you just say "Mommy?" Mistress Lauren joins Beyond the Bedroom for a candid chat about what domming actually is (and isn’t). We answer listener questions about how to enjoy telling people what to do and receiving the care you deserve. Plus, domming from the bottom, why so many people insist they’re not REALLY into it (but they are). Plus, of course, some tales from the dungeon. 
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Mistress Lauren can be found on TikTok and X @ cherrybb333 
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#55 Pillow Talk, Playing Games, and Valentine's Surprises

A Valentine's Day special! Birna plays the couple's question game "Pillow Talk," now available for free on beyondthebedroom.com/games 
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#54 Sex at Conception? The Dangerous Myth Behind Anti-Trans and Anti-Choice Laws

Some politicians want you to believe that sex is determined at conception—but that’s not how biology works. In this mini episode, I break down the science of gestational development, debunk the dangerous myth of "sex at conception," and explain how this misinformation fuels anti-trans and anti-choice policies.
I also unpack Trump’s 2025 executive orders targeting reproductive rights, gender-affirming care, and public health. What do these laws mean for trans and nonbinary people? How do they impact abortion access? And how can we fight back?
Amidst the frustration, I'm also bringing a message of hope and solidarity because science, community, and advocacy are on our side.
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#53 Reacting to Reddit Sex Questions

To cheer us all up, Birna reacts to some fun and quirky questions from r/sex on Reddit. Topics include cockwarming, post-orgy guilt, and a drunk best friend begging to see a couple's sex tape. 
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#52 Get Your Glasses of Milk Ready! 'Babygirl' Hot Takes

Birna reviews the film "Babygirl" and discusses the kinky themes and layered characters. Plus, listeners's questions about communication and whether our childhoods can shape what we're into. 
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#51 New Year, Nude You

Birna reviews intimate resolutions submitted by listeners. Topics include better solo play, sober sex, honest communication, and much more. Plus, she shares her own resolutions for the year, including how to slow down her sex life. 
Check out beyondthebedroom.org for show notes, discount codes, and how to submit anonymous questions or voicemails for the podcast.
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#50 Making the Yuletide Gay Again

This special bonus episode is full of holiday-themed listener questions, plus Birna's sex predictions for the new year!
Longer show notes and transcriptions can be found on beyondthebedroom.org
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#49 HPV, Sexy Gifts, and Mediocre Oral

What should you do if you got the HPV vaccine but then had an abnormal pap? How do you gift lingerie without sending the wrong message? In this episode, Birna breaks down new HPV data, lists the do’s and don’ts of gifting sexy items, &  helps a listener talk to his girlfriend about her less-than-stimulating oral skills.
Longer show notes and transcriptions can be found on beyondthebedroom.org
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#48 Is Scissoring Real? Queer Cliteracy & Lesbian Sex Myths

What counts as unprotected if we both have vaginas? How do I handle a harness? Is scissoring real??
This week is all about vulva-to-vulva action, but you don't need to be a participant to enjoy this episode! Whether you're a seasoned pro, a curious newbie, or a total outsider with questions, I'll answer your questions all about V2V, lesbian, sapphic sex. 
Longer show notes and transcriptions can be found on beyondthebedroom.org
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