Beyond the Bedroom

#48 Is Scissoring Real? Queer Cliteracy & Lesbian Sex Myths

What counts as unprotected if we both have vaginas? How do I handle a harness? Is scissoring real??
This week is all about vulva-to-vulva action, but you don't need to be a participant to enjoy this episode! Whether you're a seasoned pro, a curious newbie, or a total outsider with questions, I'll answer your questions all about V2V, lesbian, sapphic sex. 
Longer show notes and transcriptions can be found on beyondthebedroom.org
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#47 Halloween Mini Episode

Masks, tentacles, and roleplay, oh my! 
This mini-episode also answers listener questions re: sex magic, monster toys, and fantasizing about something against your values (spooky!!)
 
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#46 Are ED med commercials killing your boners?

Is it just me, or are there ads for erectile dysfunction meds everywhere lately? I investigate what this cultural shift means for male sexuality in the US. Plus, I answer listener questions about female Viagra, performance anxiety, and gimmicky ED supplements. 
 
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#45 Sporty Sex & Sexy Sports

Challengers hit theaters and suddenly everyone wants two boyfriends and tennis lessons, and I don't blame them. I give my two cents on the film (minimal spoilers—don't worry!), discuss whether Gen Z really hates sex scenes, and answer questions about DP, sexting, and "overperforming" in bed. 
Recorded at Studio Friends in Tribeca, NYC 
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#44 Far from the Finish Line: Anorgasmia and Unsatisfying O's

So, you've tried everything, but you're still not "getting there." In this episode, you'll learn about the possible causes of female anorgasmia and how to make adjustments to facilitate pleasure. 
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#43 Sexpionage, Curved Dicks, and Open Toed Shoes

I discuss the history of the prosthetic scrotum I saw at the spy museum, which sent me down a rabbit hole of sexual relations in intel operations. 
Plus: evolutionary theories on curved penises, why caffeine makes some people super horny, and my biggest dating "icks" 
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#42 Size Queens, Flicks of the Wrist, and Swallowing Spit

Another cozy Q&A episode answering anonymous questions about penetration, flogging, negotiating something sexy, and the relationship between vaping and ED. A mixed bag of topics with plenty of personal details and hot takes dotted throughout. 
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#41 Antiquated Flirting, Prostate Play, and Cheating Kinks

You asked, I answered. Except this time, I surveyed my friends (of the real-life and internet variety) to help me with some topics. Here's what my circle is chatting about this week: What are some modern-day don'ts when it comes to flirting? How can I tell if I want an open relationship or just enjoy the thrill of cheating? Why does prostate pleasure still weird us out? & more on condoms, lesbian sex, and daily life. 
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#40 Tales from the Sex Shop with Saga from Losti

What's it like running a sex shop? I sat down with my former boss, Saga Lluvia, owner of the sex toy store Losti in Iceland, to chat about peddling pleasure. We answered listener questions about the types of customers we encountered, the toys we recommend, and so much more. 
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Find Saga and Losti on instagram at @losti.is or buy online (within Iceland) at Losti.is 
Saga's podcast "Losti" is this vibe but in Icelandic (and we share erotic stories!) 
 

#39 Love is Blind's Lessons in Sex Ed with Saga from Losti

Love is Blind may be reality TV, but the conversations about birth control, sexual values, and red flags are sparking real-life debates. We recap the show up until the last two episodes and ask ourselves: Is love really blind, and is love always enough? 
Saga Lluvia, the owner of sex shop Losti, joins in as an avid watcher and gives her perspective as someone in the sex ed space. 
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